A Teacher's Story
True or not - who cares, How many times do we "misjudge" by
appearance?
Her name was Mrs. Thompson. As she stood in front of her 5th grade
class on the very first day of school, she told the children a lie. Like most
teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same.
But that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat,
was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.
Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy
the year before and noticed that he didn't play well with the other children.
His clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. And Teddy could be
unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight
in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting a
big "F" at the top of his papers.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review
each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when she
reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy's first grade
teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his
work neatly and has good manners...He is a joy to be around."
His
second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by
his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and
life at home is a struggle."
His third grade teacher wrote, "His
mother's death had been hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father
doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps
aren't taken."
Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and
doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and he
sometimes sleeps in class."
By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the
problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students
brought her Christmas presents wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper,
except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper
that he got from a grocery bag. Mrs.Thompson took pains to open it in the
middle of the other presents.
Some of the children started to laugh
when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a
bottle that was one quarter-full of perfume. But she stifled the children's
laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and
dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist.
Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs.
Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mother used to."
After
the children left she cried for at least an hour. On that very day, she quit
teaching reading, and writing, and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach
children.
Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she
worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the
faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the
smartest children in the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the
children the same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."
A
year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that she
was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life. Six years went by
before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high
school, third in his class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in
his whole life.
Four years after that, she got another letter,
saying that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had
stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors.
He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he
ever had in his whole life.
Then four more years passed and yet
another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's
degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was
still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little
longer the letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD.
The story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another letter
that spring. Teddy said he'd met this girl and was going to be married. He
explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if
Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the place at the wedding that was usually
reserved for the mother of the groom.
Of course, Mrs. Thompson did.
And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones
missing. And she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his
mother wearing on their last Christmas together.
They hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs.Thompson's
ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for believing in me. Thank you so much for
making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference."
Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy,
you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make a
difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met you."
Remember - that wherever you go, and whatever you do, you will have the
opportunity to touch and/or change a person's outlook. Please try to do it in a
positive way.
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